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If you’ve been receiving our job tips for a
while, you know we usually cover specific tactics you can use in your job
search. This week, we’re taking a
break from focusing solely on tactical approaches and introducing life coach
Fernando Lopez as a guest author.
How Your Perspective Colors Your
Job Search
By Fernando Lopez,
Life Coach
Do you feel stuck in your job search? Are you
not getting the results you want? Many clients come to me because they feel
stuck. The good news is that you don’t need to wait until the circumstances of
your job search change to get yourself unstuck. You can simply change your
perspective. A new perspective will have ENORMOUS impact, even if everything
else remains the same. This article will show you how to harness the power of
perspective:
Step 1 – See that you’re in a Perspective
The first step is simply to identify your current
perspective about job searching. Discover how it is driving your actions, even
when you’re not aware of it. You are always in a perspective, and many times
it is not the most powerful one! To identify your current job search
perspective, complete the following sentence:
Searching for a job is ___________________________.
Now, ask yourself how this way of looking at your job search benefits you.
How does it cost you? Take a moment to do this.
Example:
Jane (our sample job seeker) thinks that searching for a job is a waste of
time. She could be doing something productive rather than activities that
don’t add value to anyone and may never pay off. She realizes this perspective
benefits her because it makes her more productive in the short term. She also
realizes that it keeps her from pursuing the opportunities she really wants.
Frankly, she realizes, she’ll never feel inspired about looking for a new
job/career under this perspective.
Step 2 – Realize there are many other Perspectives
The second step is to identify additional perspectives. I
challenge you to come up with at least 8 more perspectives beyond the one you
discovered in Step 1.
To make it easier, I’ve provided some ticklers for you below: how would
those characters in the left-hand column view job searching? Get a pen and paper
and write it down. Free-associate any way you want to. Make sure you come up
with perspectives that are also true for you. Jane came up with the perspectives
on the third column.
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Character Ticklers
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Your Perspective (fill-in this column):
Job Searching is…
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Jane’s Perspective
(example):
Job Searching is…
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- Initial
Impression?
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A waste of time
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- Mom?
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Something I just have to
do
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- 6
year old?
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Playful and fun…
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- Entrepreneur?
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Just like sales
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- Cartoon
Character?
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Something you do
continuously your whole life.
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- Pet
Monkey?
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About learning a few new
tricks
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- Artistic
Friend?
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Not for me.
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- Favorite
Celebrity?
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A matter of finding what
you would really enjoy.
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- Very
Wise Friend?
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An excuse to learn about
new companies and meet new people
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- Other?
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Now you will have much more choice about how you view your job search.
Review your perspectives again. Feel what it would be like to operate from each
of them. What would be good about them? What would be bad?
Step 3 – Consciously choose a Perspective
Once you’re done trying on each of the perspectives, it
is time to choose one of them. Choose the one that is most life-giving. Which
one would get you into action or provide the most learning?
Example: After looking at her new perspectives, Jane chose her
favorite celebrity’s perspective: job searching is “a matter of finding what
you would really enjoy”. That didn’t seem like a waste of time to her at
all!
Step 4 – Create an Action Plan from the Perspective you Choose
After you choose your perspective, you will need to put
together an action plan. How would you put into action your new perspective?
Example: Jane
immediately thought of arranging some information interviews with friends and
acquaintances in the fields she is interested in. She decided that this week she
would call three people and schedule meetings with them.
Step 5 – Commit to the Plan…
We will talk about commitment and taking action in my next
article. Stay tuned.
Too often we take the historical experience and make it
into “the way IT is” whatever that is for us, as if we were powerless to
have it any other way.
Start by looking at the following statements:
- “Finding
a job is mostly out of my control.”
- “Job
searching requires that I sell out on myself.”
- “Looking
for a job is a lot of fun.”
- “Searching
for a job is a waste of time.”
Notice how you will tend to agree or disagree with them.
For our purposes, it doesn’t really matter whether they’re true or not, the
important thing to see is that taking on one of these beliefs will color your
job search accordingly and may be the root of your stuckness.
Once you have become unstuck and feel that you have a
healthy perspective on your job search, your next step should be to generate job
leads. We recommend getting your
resume posted on all the important job sites as a good way to get your resume in
front of recruiters. ResumeDirector
is a service that will let you enter your resume once and get it posted on over
90 job sites including Monster, HotJobs, CareerBuilder, etc.
To find out more about it, visit this link:
http://www.jobsearchinfo.com/rd.htm
The author of this article, Fernando Lopez, is a life coach
based in
New York City
. Fernando coaches individuals on
achieving what they want out of life. He
works with people in person in the
New York City
area, as well as with people in other areas through his telephone coaching
program. To find out more about his
services, visit this link:
http://www.jobsearchinfo.com/flopez.htm
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